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Sunday, November 28, 2010

Aishwarya Rai Bachchan is a FAKE

I saw Guzaarish the other day and noticed a startling fact. Besides the fact that the movie was based on a meaningless plot of a vegetable state individual wanting to die.

I mean why would a vegetable lodge a case in court to change the constitution to allow him to die, aren’t the drips and dialyses enough trouble for him already.

If you want to die, you just die; you can Google a thousand methods in 0.9 seconds.

Anyways that’s besides the point from what I was startled about. What I noticed was sheer hypocrisy and pseudo character of our esteemed beauty queen Aishwarya.


In one of her interviews to that dainty man Karan Johar, she said “I fail to understand heroines who say that they are going to concentrate on their work and cannot afford to marry, I think I have successfully managed both”.


Well, how well has she managed is there to be seen. In the climax of the movie, Vegetable gives an amazing tear popping speech before calling it quits and praises Sophia (Aishwarya) and asks her to walk 12 steps, each step representing a year she spent with him taking his care.

Aishwarya rai BACCHAN walks and walks and as they were about to lock lips, it was as if cameraman got instructions from her insecure husband and turned the camera elsewhere. Audience was transported to 1970s or something. Where cameraman kind of loses focus all of a sudden or shows two flowers or pigeons making out.

Every one would agree that this was the scene of the movie and to not kiss the vegetable at that stage is an outrage. That’s like saying that you are bigger than the movie, bigger than the director and bigger than the audience. You have rules and limitations coz u r fucken married.


I mean these supposed women of substance have audacity to implicitly look down on likes of mallika sherawat but I am afraid in my book mallika is a 1000 times better. She would have kissed the vegetable, would have done justice to what the scene demanded.

My point is if you cannot do justice to the role, you don’t belong to the industry; you are an unprofessional jerk hogging the limelight for nothing, blocking the way for a more deserving candidate.

Be a housewife, give birth to kids, become a receptionist (I am not demeaning these acts) or do whatever that suits your limitations.

Bottom line is that Aishwarya Rai cannot handle both work and family. She is a hypocrite, a fake who would twist the story and narration to suit her fancy coz she can afford to do so.

Bollywood, in general is a family business, to use Warrant Buffets phrase, it is an ovarian lottery. Just because you are born in a given family, or married to one, you have a birth right to act and twist the tale in accordance with your liking or in this case ‘limitation’.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

CWG 2010 and our Tolerant society!!

The other day my sister offered me a discounted tickets to the opening ceremony of the coveted ‘Common Wealth Games’ and I could not help but wonder the unbelievable gullible and tolerant society we have.

After all that has happened, even in a corrupt third world society like India, this scale has been unprecedented. Everything that could go wrong did go wrong and the bureaucrats have the audacity to say its ‘Business as Usual’.

70 freaking thousand crores spent on a damn spectacle of charade in a country where people are dying of starvation, there is no water and electricity, and the basic ends are not met for the majority.

Just to put things in perspective, our country’s annual spend on education is 46,000 crores. Thats a different story, god knows where that goes.

Am I the only one who is crying foul, I hope not?
Dictionary does not have a word for this act? Closest would be ‘ostentatious’ but even in that the end result is spectacular.

I personally feel there is something seriously wrong with our upbringing. We accept the unacceptable with utmost ease and set a new benchmark for the exploiter.

Since birth, kids are taught to touch feet of elders; conformity is bread into our being. Non conformists are labeled and looked down upon. We are conditioned to accept things on ‘as is’ basis, no wonder we were ruled for a period of 300 years by foreigners.

Even in my daily life I see examples in abundance. I see married women with red bruise marks around their forearms wearing ‘chhuddas’ for freaking 01 year looking like clowns.

Speaking your mind is considered controversial.


Feeling comfortable and at home in exploitation is spelling doom day. For me that is a waste of a human life. Dogs feel comfortable, they are suppose to be loyal and faithful and conformists. As a human being it is our right and if you ask me our duty to raise our voice, not take anything on face value, not confirm to preset benchmarks and be independent of compulsions.

The question then comes what can you, with all your lack of authority and limitations as an individual do to change. I am hoping that people get this frustration and sense of helplessness, because that is the start. Only a non conformist, an independent thinker an unconditioned being would feel uncomfortable.


For me answer lies in individual awakening only. Society is nothing but a sum total of individuals. All the big revolutions start from an individual. It just takes one spark to ignite a fire. There is a free man/women hidden inside every person, just need to throw that black blanket of conditioning.

I have personally decided not to be part of this common wealth fiasco and use my energy in motivating more people to boycott this event which is nothing more than a symbol of day light robbery.

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Tuesday, June 29, 2010

An Experiment.

I did a small experiment today. While working in office, I took off my shoes, opened 2 buttons of my shirt. It felt nice so I went ahead and untied my belt, unbuckled my trousers and partially let the zip open as well.

Wat an experience I must say, try it sometime, it feels so relaxed and as if the world is at ur feet.

For the first time, I did not feel like another brick in the wall, coz every other brick was sitting uptight with clothes on.

I feel entrepreneurship (or life for that matter) is nothing but this feeling of nakedness. Ability of letting the wind flow and touch your soul.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Reshmi Zulfae. (Foot in Mouth incident)

A funny thing happened last Friday….

One of our Intellectual Service Delivery Leader decided to impart moral and social ethics to one of the TSC reps.

This rep had grown his hair real long, had a pony tail and came across as a real rock band fan, chilled out in his own world minding his own business.

But somehow he offended the business ethos of our esteemed leader who approached him to give him piece of his conditioning.

He told him that his outlook is unprofessional, and he might need a haircut. Ironically enough this SDL is himself ‘Hair deprived’.

No offence but this is almost like a lame telling a sprinter to run slow, or a blind telling the archer to mind his target.

To this intruding the private space comment, our ever so chilled out rep answers, ‘Is this something to do with your inferiority complex since you don’t have any’.

My purpose of writing here is not to highlight the foot in the mouth tendencies of our leaders.

I want to touch base on a deeper issue of audacity of people to not only judge basis their personal prejudice and perception but also to force it as a mandate.

I feel that is where it all begins, democracy Vs Dictatorship.
Where one fosters freedom of expression and space, the other intrudes and forces the issue.

I read Mein Kampf and believe you me, Adolf Hitler almost successfully justified the killings of millions in the name of patriotism.

Such is the power of perception and conditioning. Mind is a powerful tool and has the unbelievable ability to rationalize everything.

SDL will dare not put across the same request to a Sikh I am sure because that hurts the religious sentiments.

A little more power of numbers though lets say in France, he can make a country wide rule that turbans are not allowed.

Who decides what is professional is something I fail to understand. I am afraid free flowing hair dude looks pleasing to the eye compared to a bald leader.

Should we make wearing wigs to office a mandate in that case?

After the remark from our chilled out rep, this SDL was infuriated and demanded the employee id and team details of the rep.

No wonder his inflated ego was busted flat.

Life gives us nth opportunities to learn and be bigger than our conditioning, to not judge and have no preconceived notions but ego just doesn’t allow that to happen.

I was hoping that our SDL learns from it and doesn’t pump his already inflated ego by demanding the reps ouster.

However expecting that is a stupidity as if he had that much intelligence, why would have the whole thing started.



Disclaimer: This narration is based on a true story. Any resemblance to any body dead or alive is totally intentional.
This incident did not take place in front of me, This narration is as per what I heard from my TSC friend.

Sunday, March 7, 2010

My Purpose of Life

I did a 20 minute exercise suggested by Steve Pavlina

http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/01/how-to-discover-your-life-purpose-in-about-20-minutes/

and had a considerable success in getting a more clear picture in my mind.

I firmly believe that every individual irrespective of its creed, cast, color and status is cut out to do a thing in his/her life.

That can be termed as his dharma or in layman terms, ‘purpose in life’.

After writing a total of 14 building thoughts, I came up with my Purpose in Life statement.

‘To be an individual who is unscathed by surroundings, a peaceful and charming wanderer, who brings social change by empowering individuals’.

I know since a person is evolving all the time, so does his/her purpose. And since change is the only constant, I will have to re-look at it after some passage of time. But for time being this is the closest I can think of what I reckon is why I came here.

Unscathed by surrounding based on my life learning of the fable, ‘”This too shall pass”
Peaceful and charming are the traits I relate to very high in my book. Wanderer takes care of my knack and liking for exploring new places, people and food.